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Mistress Nicolette is based in Los Angeles.

We all have a BDSM history, from the moment we had our first fantasy to our latest scene. Here is some of her's:

She grew up in Southern California, looking typical but feeling unusual. Inside she had fantasies and desires that didn't fit into the "norm". Her adventures in BDSM began when she was 17 years old. she acted out her dominant fantasies by holding down her boyfriend while kissing, holding him down gently at first then progressing to pinning him below her and finally to tying him down with her scarves.

Her growth as a Dominatrix followed a natural progression. Starting with books and magazines, she learned that she was not the only person with these desires. And this knowledge further fueled her curiosity, as the possibility of acting out her fantasies became more real. As her boyfriends would each eventually discover - BDSM experimentation became a central part of her sexuality. Each Anne Rice book or reference in a movie brought her closer to the reality of playing with partners equally fixated on a power exchange dynamic.

Her first play partners were people like herself, who were more into exploring their need for S/M than into pursuing vanilla desires that she found through telephone personal ads. In one telephone conversation, she learned about play parties. Suddenly she imagined herself at a gathering where people exchanged ideas, lent support and mentored others, and watched each other play! She didn't know where to find these parties, but became determined to get there. Finally, while working at a booth that sold whips and other items from the renaissance period, she was invited by a co-worker to attend her first play party. Held at a local (now non-existent) dungeon owned by a beautiful professional dominatrix who later became her friend. There were several rooms full of equipment and toys, and more importantly, people who were experienced and skilled in all areas of play. She found herself mesmerized by scenes... watching things she had fantasized about for years unfolding before her eyes. Everyone was dressed in their finest fetish attire since it was a post-party for the biggest annual fetish event in Los Angeles.

She felt that she belonged there, in the midst of scenes, listening to the sounds of whipping and groans of painful pleasures. Luckily, she met a few new friends who welcomed her into the scene and invited her to join them at a Threshold meeting. In addition to introducing her to even more like-minded people, Threshold gave her the opportunity to learn more about technique and to attend many more play parties.

Her appetite for play whetted, she hungered to learn more, and voraciously sought new experiences. Taking classes and meeting new people, playing and practicing, and talking to people she could relate to, she finally felt that she fit in.

She further entered into the world of BDSM by joining a private group founded by BDSM professionals and lifestylers who wanted to have regular play parties. In addition, she found parties that offered the opportunity to see even heavier scenes held at several professional dungeons around town such as G-Force, Ivy Manor and Justice.

Meeting these Pro Dommes and watching them play, she knew that she wanted BDSM to be more a part of her life than just a weekend activity. She saw that she could make it a central part of her life, and spend my days playing!!

Several years ago, she started taking sessions with clients she met while chatting online. she played in a small space and enjoyed her sessions, but she wanted to expand her capabilities and clientele to include more elaborate and intense scenes. Recently, she has relocated to a more spacious and well-equipped dungeon where she has the opportunity to expand into new areas such as full suspension, heavier bondage scenes, and extended sessions.

Being a Dominatrix allows her to be herself - this is what she has always wanted to do, and as she expands and explores she is not holding back. She is going full speed ahead toward her full potential as a sensually sadistic dominant.

For additional pictures and more information, visit her Website.